Simon* – Student

Just less than a year has gone by without any dates, texting a guy, kisses, basically nothing! I’m a nun at this point and obviously feeling very apprehensive about the idea of going anywhere near anyone again, especially in an intimate setting. My only two sexual experiences at now 21 years old were close together and blurred into my warped view of intimacy. Unfortunately I don’t know any different yet… However, I am strong. I’ve found my feet again by this point and I’m taking that proverbial bull by those big ugly horns and I’m going to start dating again...

The Serious Bit

As you well know, I left the previous post at a bit of a cliffhanger. I warned you all that I would be getting to the serious bit in my dating story and we have now reached that one. Don’t worry, I will keep this brief and skim over the details because we have plenty more dating mishaps to come once this bit is over. If it wasn’t vital to my experiences with men then I wouldn’t bother sharing it but it appears to be extremely vital! Where did I get to before? Oh yes, it was 2011 and I...

Callum* – The Big V

Ok, so at the ripe old age of 20 and just a few months shy of 21 I decided it was about bloody time I lost my virginity. Don’t get me wrong I am glad I waited till I was the last of my friends and older than everyone else was when they lost theirs. Call me old fashioned but I was and still remain a believer that a girl should wait it out until she feels completely comfortable to dive in for the first time. I also believe, however, that no matter how it happens it won’t be special...

Dave* – Student

In September 2009 I started University where there would be loads of exciting new things for me! I would surely meet someone here who would end up being my first boyfriend right? Yeah, so that didn’t happen. When I started Uni I didn’t really go on any dates because I was so wrapped up in making new friends and getting on with my work. I was too busy spending time with my friends and, well doing what students do; go out and have fun! I was studying drama so I also spent a lot of spare time in rehearsals and...

Paul* – Estate Agent

This is a pretty quick one because we never actually got to the date! Paul* is someone I actually went to school with. He was a year older than me so I’d met him previously but he’d always had a girlfriend and I was never interested; until that fateful night in 2009 where I was on a night out with friends and I saw him. Obviously because we’d gone to school together I knew his friends and he knew mine and before long we got chatting and catching up on everything. He was working as an estate agent and doing...

Edward* – Cage Fighter

Edward* – Cage Fighter

Now, the first date I want to let you in on is probably one of my favourite ones! I might be starting with the climax too soon but this was one of the first dates I ever went on so it seems only natural to start at the beginning! Edward* and I met through some mutual friends and although in hindsight, I know he is absolutely not my type, I was very new to dating so didn’t really feel I was allowed to have a type in case it made me seem picky! I was 18 years old and he...